Pearls are organic and soft. A few simple habits are the difference between decades and a few years.
Unlike diamonds or sapphires, pearls are organic, porous, and soft — roughly 2.5 to 4.5 on the Mohs scale. They react to acids, dry out in the wrong conditions, and abrade against harder stones. None of that is a problem if you handle them accordingly.
Last on, first off. Put pearls on after perfume, hairspray, makeup and moisturiser have dried, and take them off before you undress. Nearly every case of dulled or yellowed pearls traces back to cosmetics and fragrance sitting on the nacre.
Silk thread stretches, absorbs oils and eventually fails. Restring a regularly worn strand every two to three years, and sooner if you see the thread discolouring, gaps opening between pearls, or the strand hanging longer than it used to. Always ask for knotting between pearls, and for the original clasp to be inspected at the same time.
Contrary to the instinct to lock them away, pearls do better for being worn. The trace moisture and natural oils from skin help maintain the nacre. A strand worn regularly and wiped afterwards will outlast one kept sealed in a drawer for a decade.
No. Repeated water exposure weakens the silk thread and soap residue dulls the nacre. Chlorinated water is worse still. Take pearls off before showering, swimming or bathing.
Never. Ultrasonic and steam cleaners will damage pearls permanently — the vibration can crack nacre and destroy the adhesive holding mounted pearls. Clean pearls only with a soft damp cloth.
Yellowing is usually accumulated body oils, cosmetics and perfume reacting with the nacre over years, and it is largely irreversible. It can also indicate the pearls have dried out from storage in an over-dry environment. Prevention through routine wiping is the only real answer.